Just Take The Next Step
Bermuda was amazing... And life changing. I went to Bermuda to promote my book, Meditations Across the King's River and to do readings for clients. I had so many sacred encounters. I'm still reflecting on the lessons I've learned, the love I felt, and the wisdom I shared. Don't get me wrong... It wasn't a vacation by any means. In fact, I worked...
Everything Isn’t A Sign
Everything that happens to us or around us isn't a sign. Something might not be going your way right now, but is that a sign you're on the wrong path? Many spiritual advisors will say YES. And that's where I disagree. It might not be a sign at all. If anything, maybe it's a sign you shouldn't give up and you need to keep going. Maybe it's a sign...
2nd Edition is a Best Seller
When the 2nd edition of Meditations Across the King's River became an international bestseller, I thought about the long journey that got me here. My success is by no means an overnight journey. It all started 20 years ago with a family crisis. That crisis led me to the Ifa spiritual tradition. I write and speak openly about the adversity I faced...
Celebrating the Power of Love
This photo of my wife, Stephanie, was taken about 20 years ago. Photography used to be one of my passions, and I was taking photos of Stephanie and our children in our backyard in Oakland. Maybe I should pick up my camera again:) As a I gaze at this photo, I reflect on the power of love, the power of soulmates and the power of destiny. I wouldn't...
Do You Know Your Roots?
If you could talk to one of your loved ones in Spirit what would you say? And why would you say it? What would you want to know, and why is it important to you? I regret not asking Dad and other relatives more questions about my roots when I had the chance. That's why I’m grateful for the work my uncle, Gerry Doward, is doing. He’s Mom’s youngest...
You Have 24/7 Spiritual Support
I believe our ancestors travel back to our world on vibrations of love and hope. Hope that we will realize we have gifts and spiritual powers, and we should cultivate them. Hope we will live up to our potential and realize each day is sacred. Hope we will stop dwelling on folks that let us down and focus on folks that lift us up. Your loved ones...
Always Seek Growth
Last month, I received a direct message I wasn't expecting on Instagram. The message came from award-winning dancer, choreographer, and actor Adesola Osakalumi. He's best known for his starring role in the Broadway musical, Fela, a powerful tribute to the life and legacy of famed Nigerian activist/musician Fela Kuti. Adesola is of Caribbean...
Are You Living The Life You Deserve
A dear friend and client recently sent me some photos via Whatsapp. I was so happy to receive them. The energy around her was uplifting. She looked beautiful, happy, relaxed, vibrant, and I was quick to tell her so. "Decided I'm going to live the life, I deserve. I get to choose what that looks like. The universe will support me. It's very...
Be Smart With Your Money
My friend Jewel Love said something that caught my attention recently. He’s on a bold mission to help black men make seven figures. I’ve known Jewel for a long time. He’s the CEO of Black Executive men. And he wasn’t always this bold... Years ago, we would meet in his tiny apartment in Oakland to share our dreams for the future. Back then he was...
Open Your Doors
I wasn't expecting my spiritual mentor to die when he did. It came as a complete shock. One minute he was here, and the next minute he was gone. His name was Dr. Afolabi Epega. He was a round, jovial Nigerian man. That's him in this photo. He was fifth-generation Ifa diviner, and he was also a scientist with a PhD in organic chemistry. Baba Epega...